PaternityAngel Forum: Too eager for pregnancy to end.

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   Hi all,
I got a fright yesterday when my fiancee who is 2 months pregnant said to me that I am too eager for the pregnancy to end. I apparently give off the impression that all I want is the baby and none of the pregnancy that comes with it.
Have any of you ever experienced something similar?
My argument to the so called problem is that it is not me wanting to skip the whole pregnancy thing. I am eager to see that little bundle of joy that we made together. Is that such a bad thing?
My fiancee has had two children before, but this is my first. She knows all the ins and outs of pregnancy and I am still learning them (especially the mood swings). I am all for learning about pregnancy, and everything that is experienced with it. But apparently I give off the wrong impression when I say it.
Am I over eager or am I just mis-understood?

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GatekeeperTD Member Joined: 2009-Oct-01 Location: South Africa Posts: 1	Topic: Too eager for pregnancy to end. Posted: 2009-Oct-01 at 06:43
	Hi all, I got a fright yesterday when my fiancee who is 2 months pregnant said to me that I am too eager for the pregnancy to end. I apparently give off the impression that all I want is the baby and none of the pregnancy that comes with it. Have any of you ever experienced something similar? My argument to the so called problem is that it is not me wanting to skip the whole pregnancy thing. I am eager to see that little bundle of joy that we made together. Is that such a bad thing? My fiancee has had two children before, but this is my first. She knows all the ins and outs of pregnancy and I am still learning them (especially the mood swings). I am all for learning about pregnancy, and everything that is experienced with it. But apparently I give off the wrong impression when I say it. Am I over eager or am I just mis-understood?
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BL Tween Member Joined: 2010-Jan-29 Posts: 1	Posted: 2010-Jan-29 at 20:19
	Both! Its ok to be excited. A new baby is a wonderful thing. Women are probably more emotional during pregnancy than any other time. They do need extra TLC. Make sure she knows you love her and don’t give up! As she gains weight she might feel less attractive. Her hormones will run rapid at times. Be patient, give her time, love her and enjoy each other, you will get through this. The little one will need a lot of your attention after it arrives. Don’t for get to spend time together just man and woman. It is important for both of you. Happy parents - happy baby. BL Tween
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