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dazguy
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Joined: 2010-Jan-21 Location: United Kingdom Posts: 1 |
![]() Topic: Girlfriend Prgnant and so horrible, help!Posted: 2010-Jan-21 at 10:50 |
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Me and my girlfriend are at 31 weeks, 9 left. the last month has been horrible. she won't kiss me, cuddle me or have sex with me. i ask why an shes not on the mood. we have been arguing bout this for a whilst. last time we had sex she had to go hospital the next day as she started bleeding a little bit but came home after 3 days all ok. a week later i want sex an she says no, so i go out for a few hours to come back to her pleasing herself. to which we have another row. she says its me being insecure an constantly smoothering her. before she was pregnant and most of the pregnancy we were so close and loving. she says she loves me an wants me more than anything to which i reply it don't feel like it. we both work full time an i get in to her on sofa waiting for me to come in an do dinner an housework. which i have no issue with as trying to help as much as i can to take pressure off her. when i talk to her bout stuff she gets moody an arsy.
is it me? how long do i keep biting my tongue an have to feel this way?
help!!!
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Jimbo
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Joined: 2010-Feb-04 Location: Australia Posts: 2 |
![]() Posted: 2010-Feb-04 at 09:55 |
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Hi Dazguy.
I feel for you man. I am having similar issues, not with sex but general moodiness and hormonal reactions. I wish I had the answer (then my problems wold be solved). But I guess my rational and best thought out answer is as follows (whether it works in practice is another thing).
You guys need to communicate. Agreed she is hormonal, but you are also going through alot too. but you guys need to communicate.... If you can't do this between the two of you because emotions dominate the scene, then go and see someone.... That is what my partner and I are going to do. A counseller. Yes it will cost, but from the sounds of it things are turning from bad to worse..... paying a counseller os a small price to pay if you look at the potential long term pay off.... Or from another angle, the potential cost is you don't work things out.
Biting your tongue will only work for so long, and by then the tension will have grown so big that you risk exploding and saying a whole bunch of stuff you might not mean to.
Thats my thought anyways...
Good luck
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