Hi all, I just found out that my girlfriend is pregnant.  We have been together since high school (almost 20 years) and are currently living together.  We were not trying to have a child, and our relationship has somewhat run its course.  However, with this news, I would like to do everything I can to help her through this and to make it a joyful experience rather than adding to the anxiety of it all.  What are guys expected to do?  Or better yet, what should/can I do to help out at this point?  I was thinking that I'm going to try to make it to all of her appointments, but I don't want to smother her at the same time.  Any advice will be much appreciated.  Thanks!